Welcome to Make Straight Paths

This web site is dedicated to the glory of God. It was created to lift up the truth as revealed in the Bible, by examining various doctrines that are held by the religious group variously known as “the Family,” “The Family International,” the “Children of God,” or the “Family of Love.” These doctrines are compared and contrasted with Bible passages that expound on the same topics.

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The following pages have been completely revised and rewritten:

Stumbling Others. The Family usually does not address the scriptural admonition to refrain from causing harm to other people through overzealous application of what one believes to be the will of God. However, the Bible admonishes believers that love is more important than freedom and care for others is an essential component of obedience. In other words, if one's freedom is unloving, then one must voluntarily refrain from those actions, and if one's obedience hurts other believers then one is not truly obedient.

Romans 6. The Family argues that because Christians are saved by grace without works, therefore, obedience to the Mosaic Law is not necessary, and in fact they may break the Mosaic Law without fear of committing sin. Therefore, according to the Family, extra-marital sex is no sin. However, there are serious flaws in this teaching that come to light when one studies the sixth chapter of Romans.

Marriage. This page briefly summarise the main passages in the New Testament that mention marriage, in contrast to the Family's teachings, which generally minimise marriage, legitimise divorce and remarriage and condone and encourage extra-marital sex.

Lust. In general, scriptural warnings against the sin of sexual lust are ignored in the Family. The founder of the Family (Berg/Dad) declared that it was practically impossible to refrain from lusting after sexually attractive people, and therefore Jesus did not mean that lust or adultery were wrong but that these were examples of laws that were impossible to keep. However, this view severely misrepresents the Bible, for sexual lust is condemned in the New Testament, by Jesus himself, and by the apostles after the Holy Spirit came.

The Early Church. The Family often claims that God intended the book of Acts to be the blueprint for the church. As they also believe that Jesus' law of love is the basis for their sexual practices, a close look at Acts should reveal the early church's attitude to sex. If the Family is correct, then the book of Acts will show a liberal attitude towards extra-marital sex, but if they are wrong then Acts will clearly condemn sexual activity. There is one occasion recorded in Acts, when all the apostles and elders came together to discuss an extremely important controversy, and while doing so touched on the topic of sex. This page examines Acts 15 in light of the Family's sexual beliefs.

The Law of Love in the Gospels. The Family believes that Jesus came to bring a new law, the Law of Love, which may be paraphrased as 'Whatever is done in love is lawful in the sight of God.' Therefore, according to the Family, sex outside of marriage is no longer a sin, as long as it is done in love. Family teaching is that one of the reasons Jesus came to earth was in order to institute the Law of Love. Therefore, the first place to look for confirmation of the Family's doctrine would be in the words of Jesus himself, as recorded in the Gospels. This web page examines two passages where Jesus talked about the 'Law of Love,' to see if the Family's interpretation is possible.

The Law of love in the Epistles. Although the Old Testament law clearly condemns sex outside of marriage, the Family believes that Jesus came to bring a new law, the Law of Love, which may be paraphrased as 'Whatever is done in love is lawful in the sight of God.' Therefore, according to the Family, sex outside of marriage is not sin, as long as it is done in love. There are several places in the New Testament epistles that mention the 'Law of Love,' and this web page examines those passages to see if they may be used to justify the Family's sexual beliefs.

Bought with a price In general, Family members understand 1 Corinthians 6:20 to mean that Jesus Christ 'paid' for their lives with his death on the cross, and therefore they now wholly belong to him. So, Christians are under obligation to obey him to their utmost ability. However they do not realise that the context of this verse shows that it directly relates to their sexual practices.

1 Thessalonians 4 As he only spent a short time in Thessalonica, Paul was unable to thoroughly ground the new believers in all aspects of the faith and this fact worried him tremendously. There were a couple of issues that Paul wanted to address, several areas in which the young Thessalonian church was "lacking in their faith." So, he wrote them the letter which we now call 'First Thessalonians.' This web page examines the fourth chapter of First Thessalonians in view of the Family's teachings on sexual matters.

Judging on the Basis of Love ‘Love’ is highly prominent in Family teaching. Family teaching uses the biblical emphasis on love to justify actions that God declares are not acceptable in his sight, it confuses human concepts of interpersonal love with love for and from God, and elevates 'love' to such importance that it is allowed to take precedence over other biblical attributes. This web page summarises several of the Family's teachings on love, and compares them to what the Bible says.

Jesus on Adultery The founder of the Family (Berg/Dad) taught his followers that 'adultery' no longer exists as a sin for Christians. Unfortunately, many Family members are unaware that Jesus talked about sex and adultery, but he never condoned extra-marital sex, nor said that the commandment against adultery was no longer in effect. This web page briefly examines the Bible passages where Jesus specifically talked about the sin of adultery.

Christian Freedom. In his letter to the Galatians, Paul strenuously defended the concept of freedom: Christians should resist all attempts to enslave them, because one of the reasons Jesus came was to give them freedom. Exactly what freedom do Christians have, and what are the limits. An examination of the book of Galatians.

Galatians 5. The Family interprets Galatians 5:14 to mean that the OT laws against sexual immorality do not apply, as long as the actions are done in love. However, the verse takes on a different meaning when examined in the context of the chapter it is in.

What's happening in the Family?

Make Straight Paths does not function as a source of current events or news about the Family itself. However, in light of the current so-called “Journey to Change” in the Family a couple of comments may be pertinent.

First, Make Straight Paths focuses on the biblical inaccuracies in Family teaching. Apologies for past abuses of Family members and assurances of change are therefore irrelevant for the purpose of this website.

Second, apologies and assurances that do not address reparations or alleged criminal behaviour by specific individuals appear hollow to many people in the former-member community. Repeated apologies and institution of internal safeguards will never be sufficient. Far more is required. Further, apologies that wholly lay the blame on members' misinterpretation of otherwise valid teaching are no apologies at all. Possibly some members abused others on the basis of misinterpretations, but in general the teachings that promoted sexual interaction between adults and minors were systemic and proceeded from the very top echelon of leadership. A genuine apology would therefore acknowledge the criminal liability of the leaders as well as those who put their teachings into practice.

Third, nothing short of an independent investigation of the Family will suffice. Such an audit would need to be carried out on various levels, with the goal of investigating the allegations of criminal actions, the links between those actions and the doctrines that were taught, as well as auditing the financial situation of the Family.

Fourth, admission by Family leadership that they need to re-evaluate doctrinal teaching is welcome, but does not as yet come close to the fundamental areas of concern. The pages here on Make Straight Paths clearly show that there have been major errors in Family Bible teaching since its beginning. Most of these errors continue unabated to the present day, and are of such a foundational level that minor readjustments to Family teaching would be meaningless. By way of analogy, repairing torn upholstery on a vehicle which actually needs its engine replaced is a waste of time.

A note to current Family members: the above assertions are admittedly blunt. If you take offense, we at Make Straight Paths ask you this: Conduct your own extensive Bible study, being sure to give the Bible precedence over the MLs and GNs. That is, allow God his right to judge Family writing, as well as to judge this website by elevating the Bible above all other writings. Choose any of the major unique Family teachings: sex, spirit helpers, the keys, prophecy on demand, and see what the Bible itself has to say. The question is not, 'Can I find this Family teaching somewhere in the Bible?' but rather 'If I start from a passage in the Bible, what message does it give?' In other words, would a plain reading of the Bible automatically result in Family doctrine? If not, then you need to do something about your life. If so, please explain.

'Leave-takers'

In an effort to address one of the severe negative issues affecting people who leave the Family, Family leadership has decided to identify such people as "leave-takers." They were previously known as "backsliders."

To 'take leave' is defined in the Free Dictionary as "to use time permitted to be away from work." In the Macmillan Dictionary, it is "a period of time away from your job." The noun 'leave' is defined in the WordWeb Dictionary as "the period of time during which you are absent from work or duty."

Defining people who leave the Family as "leave-takers" implies several things:

First, that Family membership is a valid occupation or duty. Second, that there is nothing inherently wrong with the Family. Third, that people who leave are merely taking a temporary break; they may return at a later time. Fourth, that this leave of absence has been graciously permitted by the Family. Fifth, that the reasons for people leaving are primarily personal.

Although there may be some people who leave the Family to whom this definition applies, there is a large number of people to whom it does not. There are many people who would take exception to these implications for a number of different reasons.

First, the Family has such self-serving structures in place that it can hardly be called a duty, or even an occupation. Second, serious allegations of systemic criminal behaviour have been made against the Family. This website, Make Straight Paths, documents systemic abuse of biblical truths. Third, many people leave the Family with no intention to ever return, due to a number of reasons. Fourth, people either choose to leave the Family or they are excommunicated from the Family. In general, people don't apply for a leave of absence. Fifth, some reasons for leaving may be personal, others may be doctrinal, or even due to a perception of widespread wrongdoing.

In short, the label "leave-takers" appears arrogant and condescending.

What's new on this website

This website is currently undergoing a major revision.

Several 'general information' pages have been added or revised: FAQ, About Make Straight Paths, History, Terminology, Government and Relationships.

A more important project has been the revision and rewriting of all the older doctrinal pages. While the principles expounded on in these pages are basically correct, the actual content needs to be redone for various reasons.

Completed:

The Law of Love in the Gospels

The Law of love in the Epistles

The Early Church

Bought with a price

1 Thessalonians 4

Judging on the Basis of Love

God forbids calling on the dead

The great cloud of witnesses

Lazarus and the Rich Man

Messenger in Revelations

The Transfiguration

Saul and the Witch

Hearing from Spirit Helpers

Romans 10:17

Commentaries on Matt 16:19

The Keys of the Kingdom

The Family's defence of the keys

The Standard of Measurement

The Word of God

The Destruction of Men

What to read first

If you are unfamiliar with the Family and want to know general information, you could read the history of the Family, then the pages about its government and marriage and family relationships. If you are researching a particular topic, a brief summary of each page is given on the 'Topical Studies' page. If there is a specific Bible verse you want to look up, you could try the Scripture Index. If your verse is not there, contact us and we'll add it to our 'to-do' list!

If you are thinking about joining the Family, you should start with What Potential Members Should Know.

If you are a current member of the Family, please read the Introductory Letter specifically addressed to you. There is also a special explanation for people who used to be in the Family.

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Target readership

This site has been created specifically for three groups of people:

Current Family members, regardless of status or position who wish to take an honest look at ‘those doctrines’ in the light of the Bible. Your faith is founded on the Bible. You know you have salvation because of what the Bible says. You know the Bible is the truth of God and contains the mind and heart of God. You are unafraid to study what the Bible says about the Family doctrines because you know that if those doctrines are right, they will stand. It is the Bible on which faith is built, so studying the Bible can never shake true faith. Any teaching that crumbles and falls upon cross-examination by the Bible cannot be true. Are you willing to study the Bible? Please also read the introductory letter written to you.
Former members who want to find peace in the Word. You gave years of your life in the Family out of love for the Lord. You knew the Bible was true. Now, however, sometimes you get confused, especially when Family doctrines surface. Some of these doctrines seem so logical, and easy to accept. Are they true? You want peace in your heart. You want the Word you can stand on, to justify to yourself or to others why you do or do not believe certain things. You want the truth that sets you free from the confusion that sometimes besieges you. Or perhaps you have rejected Christianity on the basis of what you saw in the Family, but would still like to make a comparison between the Family and genuine faith. There is an introductory letter written to you.
Prospective members who wish to compare specific Family doctrines with the Bible before making the decision whether or not to join the Family. You love the Lord, perhaps you are recently born again and are filled with zeal to serve the Lord. Perhaps you are tired of the complacency and spiritual lethargy you have found in mainstream Christianity. Your ultimate desire is to serve the Lord in truth. You have no wish to live for the world, you don’t want to live a self-centred existence, you want to give your life for Jesus. Yet you also know that Jesus Himself warned us not to be deceived. Many of the Family doctrines appear appealing, logical and convincing. What does the Bible actually say about those doctrines? Note that the decision to join or not to join the Family is yours and yours alone. Neither we nor Family members can take that from you. The purpose of this site is to examine the beliefs you would be expected to hold to in the perfect light of the Bible. You can get an overall view of the main differences between the Family and other churches in the page What Potential Members Should Know. It's a good place to start.

No personal attacks

The articles published on this site will not contain personal attacks on any person in the Family, including past or present leadership. The focus here is the Bible, not who is to blame, or what should be done to them. We are all accountable before God to follow Him in truth, and these articles are dedicated to lift up the truth. If you wish to read accounts of ex-members’ personal experiences in the Family, you could try one of the other sites. However, the Bible says that if you believe someone is doing the wrong thing, “you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, considering yourself lest you also be tempted”. (Gal. 6:1 NKJ) The articles published here are written with that principle in mind. Having said that, there are places on this site where reference to Family leadership is unavoidable, usually as the authors or propagators of a particular teaching. For the most part, past and present leadership publicly have taken full responsibility for the teachings they disseminate. They do not always take responsibility for their followers' application of those teachings, but they do stand behind the teachings themselves. Therefore, no offence should be taken if a page on this site names David Berg as the author of a particular doctrine, even if the study concludes that the doctrine is unbiblical.

Disclaimer

This web site does not attempt to provide a well-rounded theology, exposition or explanation of all the verses cited. The purpose of this website is to examine the doctrines of the Family, and the particular interpretations the Family gives to certain Bible verses. All pages should be seen in this light.

The question that initiated most pages was not, "What is the message of the book of Hebrews?" or "How does the Bible develop an evangelical theme through the Old and New Testaments?" but rather, "The Family believes, teaches and practises a certain doctrine. Is this doctrine correct, according to the Bible?" The result of this approach is a rather narrow focus. There are volumes that can and should be written on each topic, in order to present a well-rounded thorough teaching that is applicable to all Christians in all situations. Therefore, if you feel that a particular study is lacking in some regard, please bear in mind that the purpose of this site is narrow, in that it is designed to examine Family doctrines, and then, if you wish, contact us.